So
yesterday, I said I was going to talk about the number one reason I want to lose weight. I'm sure you've all figured it out by the title of this post -- the husband and I are thinking about trying for a family early next year! While I don't have a lot of weight to lose, (23 lbs to be exact after having a discussion about a good "number" to shoot for with my nurse practitioner today...more on that in a min!) I want to make sure that I'm as fit and healthy as possible for our future baby. But until then, we still have our "starter" child:
Tex when we first got him at 8 weeks old! I am one proud mama! Ha!Most of my life, I wasn't even sure I wanted kids. Anytime I would hear a baby whining about candy in the grocery store or banging spoons on the table in a restaurant, it convinced me a little more to scratch "be a mom" off my to-do list. But then, in 2004, my anti-maternal wall came crumbling down when my sweet niece, Kristen, was born. Elizabeth and Presley further reduced the rock to rubble when they came into the world a few years later. All of the sudden, instead of running far, far away from anything related to babies, I was shopping for Dora dolls and offering to babysit (something I
never enjoyed doing in my teen years). I feel like being an aunt has been a great way to test the waters so to speak into motherhood, and after being around these precious girls, I think I'm almost ready to jump in.
It may be somewhat sooner than JD and I had originally discussed, but
I found out before we got married last year that I have a cyst on my uterus, which may make it difficult for us to have kids. I've had two doctors tell me that if I want to have one child, let alone a second, we better push our family plans up on the calendar. But we both believe that we will have a child if God intends for us to, and we want to wait until we feel confident to do so. And with extra weight on, I don't feel like my body is ready for baby. But hopefully, with continued efforts in the food and fitness department, it will be soon.
As I said earlier, I talked with my nurse practitioner today about my slow weight loss. I initially spoke with her about it over the summer, before I started this little blog, and she ran several tests, took some blood, etc., to make sure everything was working A-OK. I did find out I have a Vitamin D deficiency, (taking vitamins for that now) but my thyroid and glucose levels were just grand. She asked questions about what I eat, how often I exercise, and concluded that I'm on the right track to getting to my 23-pound-gone goal. Metabolism medicine isn't an option for me, due to my history with
heart palps, and I have to honestly say I was a little disappointed. Working this hard with no change on the scale has been frustrating, and having a "push" to get my weight loss moving was something I was secretly hoping for. But now that I've had time to mull it over, I'm glad I didn't leave the doctor's office with a prescription. Hard or not, this is my battle, and I've got to figure out what weapons work best to fight it. My NP advised me to do more strength training (30-45 minutes), so that will be goal #1. I already do about 10 minutes with Jillian every day, but I may have to seek out some additional workouts each week to give my muscles the optimum workout.
Any suggestions -- great DVDs, online videos, classes?